Take your time when dating and remember that Men can and will say anything to get you -

   Some of them yes some not all or most but some:

 

To attract women.

     Like Bibles.

     A Bible can be a great chic magnet. Makes even gangsters and car salesmen look safe. Friendly. Trustworthy. Especially if it has his own name engraved on it. Now, I'm not knocking car salesmen and guys who tote Bibles. Most of these guys are legit. But some are merely veneer. Stay clear. You've seen them-the fake Jakes and faux Pauls.

     That's why it's imperative that you not only take Daters Ed but cover yourself with wisdom and accountability. We all have blind spots when it comes to love. When I'm driving, I have to look over my shoulder before switching lanes. Without a rear-view mirror, I may crash and burn.

     So take things slow when you are getting to know a guy. And the same goes for you guys too. I mean, come on.

     Employers check references.

     Banks require collateral.

     Apartments demand a security deposit.

     But singles everywhere hop in a relationship and drive it faster than a Maserati, risking their most valuable possession-their heart. Too many singles assume that everything a potential love interest says is certified but everyone puts their best foot forward in the beginning of a relationship. That's why it is so important to complete an inspection. Evaluating character takes time but one thing is certain-the truth comes out eventually.
Just don't get in a hurry. Slow down. Look over your shoulder and proceed with caution.

 

     If you don't, your passion may go crashing.

 

Prayer: Lord, help me to be cautious when I'm considering new friendships or dating interests. Give me the wisdom to choose companions who love you and follow your ways. I pray that you will send people with whom I can be accountable and who will be direct enough to advise me of character issues that I am oblivious to. Please protect my heart from those who may take advantage of me and are not honest with their intentions. In Jesus' name I pray. Amen.

Sometimes life is just about rolling down the windows in your car..blasting your favorite song..and forgetting the world for a while! However other times it is about being the early BIRD and CATCHING THE WORD so that you may be guided through your day abundantly! I have finally moved forward on two major projects in my life and I can't help but to smile ear to ear.
I've developed a forgiving way about me while                                                             inspiration and guidance, and yes those that criticized highly at that-well let's just be thankful God is who judges us because wow you'd think I was not awesome anymore. Offers on the table that I do right now; I'm so pleased to say that my first and #1 will be God and myself - great journey #2 My Boutique (Julianna Marie's Nest) ::thank you Robin:: & I have to wait on the third as I may have a couple very vested parties involved & am waiting for my F.E.I.N come Monday.

He has no feelings and treated me like shit!

Dear God

I wonder when I will quit and then I remember that I'm your daughter not his piece of trash!

Tears Roll down my face poem

"Tears roll down my face as I look at life everyday. As I see who I come by and who sees me a different way. When I look at myself in the mirror I see some one else
When people look at me they say wow-I feel so alone at times when I need someone
Then people just look at me and say I'm sorry hun; I look at someone I love deep into their eyes and then when they say they don't love me I sit there and cry.
When people tell me I am beautiful I don't see it; I see someone else sitting in an empty pit basically-I feel so alone all the time, even when someone is standing by my side. Now why I feel this way I can't explain...you'd think it would be clear as day
yet people think I smile and laugh and am so happy. When tears roll down my face I am no longer able to feel my breath as it leaves my body I ache with pain inside. Yet to this day all I do is pray you'll see what's underneath... and all that God sees in me.
People see someone else, and I sit there and cry when I have no one to hold, no one there to give me a hug or to say, I love you for who you are, when I am so cold
When I sit in the dark and tears roll down my face-I feel like I am a big disgrace
Like people hate me even if they say they are my friends...Just when I think I have come to an end I'm praying that someones their to pick my head back up again. I feel alone and feel insane; I feel the tears roll down my face-When no one is there to wipe them away...I feel like crashing in the rain....People say oh you look so pretty
When all I say is thank you then turn around and say if you only knew what the ones closest say instead. I try and try to change my life; but nothing happens even with a knife or as I punch the walls it's like all I can do is fall. No one will say to me, I love you will you marry me and I will for ever be alone ---- when the tears roll down my face." Truly Ms. Toni (M a r s a l i a) MY words My Poem
I will be alone forever

People make mistakes either they are aware of it or not. Sometimes it takes a lot of time and courage to admit it but in the end, still the truth will prevail. As humans, we  don't want our reputation and dignity to be degraded.. The quotes that I'm going to share today will reflect on life experiences that once made us weak, unworthy, unfaithfully loved, and disrespected. Hope this will serve as reminders for those who caused so much pain and hurt to some people.

As I look at the calander and see that it's almost May - I reflect on all that I am; all that I've felt; all that I plan to do for those I have lost & those fighting for life at this moment.

The hardest and toughest thing to be in this life-is being YOU-being UNIQUE or simply being-SLOW TO SPEAK or just being; of which your mind and outside opinions of others are continually waring against; is to be your complete self. You cannot be yourself, if you don't know who you are. And you cannot know who you are, if you don't know where you come from. This is our only battle and quest in this life; to find out who we are and where we come from. Survival is just secondary. Go beyond your human knowledge of who you think you are; your life's journey starts from this point. Life is waiting for you to discover the realization of who you are. Start your journey, in search for the truth of you. Don't abandon the search, because the only truth that you need to discover, is the truth of you; that's what that empty void inside of all of us is about. Don't abandon the search of discovering the truth about you. There will be many truths along your path; but there is only one. Don't settle for any other truths until your void is filled. Smile -- It makes a world of difference. Dance -- Who knows when you wont be able to. Cry -- Holding those emotions in is bad for you. Kiss -- Kisses are the most wonderful things in the world. Laugh -- Whats the point in hiding happiness? Frown -- Why not let him know you're unhappy? Apologize -- You don't wanna lose friends. Hug -- There's no better feeling being wrapped up close to someone you love. Live -- because life is everything. - i Found it...Sometimes, in order to become emotionally and mentally strong, you have to be broken down to your weakest point in order to build yourself back up. Not only broken down, but ripped to pieces in order to realize that life is not that fairytale that you grew up wishing upon! Tomorrow is a blank page, just waiting to be filled with your dreams... All you have to do is be yourself and live the story of your own unique life. Be proud. Be confident. And most of all be happy.. My words may not impress you but my actions will.
You've gotta wake up every morning and ask yourself, 'How bad do I want it?' How much work are you willing to put forth for the things and people you want and need in your life? Nothing great comes without effort. But I promise you that if it's something of great meaning in your heart and something you need in your life...EVERY risk, EVERY step and EVERY drop of sweat will be worth it.
Never let your head hang down. Never give up and sit down and grieve. Find another way. And don't pray when it rains if you don't pray when the sun shines.
"When you arise in the morning, think of what a precious privilege it is to be alive - to breathe, to think, to enjoy, to love."As we have woke up to another day God has blessed us with; I wait to find out if a loved one will as well. Truly from the Heart-Ms. Toni - Marsalia

Soulmate?

#Asoulmate is someone who has locks that fit our keys, and keys to fit our locks. When we feel safe enough to open the locks, our truest selves step out and we can be completely and honestly who we are; we can be loved for who we are and not for who were pretending to be. Each unveils the best part of the other. No matter what else goes wrong around us, with that one person were safe in our own paradise.